But it seems that, for a lot of people, it's so difficult to find for one. Where have all the good men gone?

I have an answer. They're all in asian telenovelas right now. So far, as what I've watched and know, I saw all of them there.

Let me elucidate my dreamy and ivory-towerish answer. Since most Filipinos are hooked into watching Asian telenovelas, I might as well start from there. Isn't it amazing how soap operas (especially the Korean soaps nowadays) can brainwash women by presenting to us ideal men from the ideal world? I'll pick 5 Korean series that I've watched so far, and try to figure out what I mean. I chose only 5 because the rest are not, uhm, physically good to be on my list. At least from my taste and point of view, they're not. And I chose the supporting roles because the main guys are, obviously, too good not to be liked. And the main guys are all taken in the story. So, if you are really a dreamer and wants to live in their world, one might as well make it a little more real by having single guys (what? a completely ambiguous paradox). Anyways, check them all out.

1. Full House's Yoo Min Hyuk

                He is a business honcho who delves into film marketing. And that's where he hires Han Ji Eun/ Jessie (Song Hye Kyo) and eventually falls in love with her. He will later on realize that even if Ji Eun and Young Jae's (Rain) marriage is a contract, Ji Eun loves Young Jae/ Justin. But still, he continued to support Ji Eun's dream to be a writer because he did not fire her or drop the whole proposal for a screenplay. He was all through the end, helpful to fixing Ji Eun and Young Jae's marital problems and even the loser-to be Young Jae's wavering fame.

2. Sang Doo, Let's Go To School's Min Suk

               He is a doctor. His girlfriend is Chae Eun Hwan (Gong Hyo Jin), Sang Doo's (Rain) childhood sweetheart and first love. When Eun Hwan and Sang Doo finally saw each other after a couple of years had passed, he gets dumped. But still, he was helpful not only to Eun Hwan but also to Sang Doo. He was the doctor who cures Sang Doo's child. Eventually, he knew that Cha Bori (child) is not really Sang Doo's, so he revealed it instead of keeping it into himself knowing that, that can be his ticket back to Eun Hwan's life.

3. Stairway to Heaven's Han Tae Hwa/Tristan

             Okay, he is not that good looking but the younger version is. He may be a reckless, hopeless and penniless painter, but he loves Han Jung Suh/ Jodi (Choi Ji Woo) with all his life, even if it means he will burn in hell. Imagine trying to make ways for Jung Suh and Song Ju/ Cholo (Kwon Sang Woo) to be reunited. Imagine, committing suicide and donating his own eyes for Jung Suh. Imagine accepting all the physical torment from the order of his own mother. Imagine threatening his own sister and defying his mother for the two lovebirds to live in peace.

4. Love Story in Harvard's Hong Jung Min

            Okay, he is not a good guy. He does dirty work. He is a money-grabbing, power-loving, manipulative lawyer who met the only woman he loves in Harvard. That woman is Lee Soo In (played by Kim Tae Hee <the evil Han Yuri/Eunice in Stairway to Heaven>). But Soo In fell for the main guy, Kim Hyun Woo (Kim Rae Won). And because of this, it is like he lost to a thousand cases because he is driven to win and get what he wants in life, even if it is through the wrong path or way. Knowing Hyun Woo is far ahead to Soo In's heart, he still risked his own life just to be able to protect and save her because she is suffering from T-cell lymph node disease. By doing this, he is fully aware that he will only make Hyun Woo and Soo In's relationship deeper and stronger. And the fact that he is a major, total and irreparably ruthless scumbag. Whew! The power of love.

5. Endless Love "Autumn in my Heart's" Andrew